Remember,
"In every moment, during every day of your life, you
have choices. The choice to create more struggle or
the choice to create more freedom and joy."
"Choose thoughts that support you in feeling good more
and more each day."
God bless you,
Saturday, 28 February 2009
co-creative powers
Remember,
"We have been given creative powers and are meant to participate in an active relationship with the Universe and its processes.
It requires conscious intention and skill to start partnering with God to co-create the life you want."
"By keeping your intention signal strong and clear, and never giving up and surrendering to the old energy, your dreams will come true."
God bless you,
"We have been given creative powers and are meant to participate in an active relationship with the Universe and its processes.
It requires conscious intention and skill to start partnering with God to co-create the life you want."
"By keeping your intention signal strong and clear, and never giving up and surrendering to the old energy, your dreams will come true."
God bless you,
Friday, 30 January 2009
Relational tips and healthy behaviour
1. Present yourself well. Have a bath or shower once a day, be well groomed and dressed neatly. Clothing doesn’t need to be expensive but it should be laundered and in good repair. Take care of your health and your teeth. Your smile will show to others that you enjoy your own company, and theirs too.
2. Keep your language clean and respectable. Say positive things about others whenever possible, but be sincere - people can recognize the difference between true interest and forced flattery.
3. Try not to be negative. It is easy to point out the downside of a situation, but if we make the effort to overcome our obstacles we can lead happier lives and be an encouragement to others. Find ways to assist those who need help and your own troubles will seem less overwhelming, and you feel better for doing it!
4. Greet people in a proper and friendly manner. It is appreciated and returned by others, and makes you feel wonderful.
5. Never bully others or take advantage of their weaknesses. Bullies are not respected because they don’t show respect. Allow people to keep their dignity.
6. Don’t act like a know it all. People do not appreciate it when you act superior to them.
7. Be a good role model. Set an example that others would like to follow. When another person imitates you, it is a sign of respect. If someone else has set a good example, let them know how much you appreciate it by your own actions.
8. Be yourself. Don’t join in with the latest craze just because others may be following the popular style. Respect yourself by making your own choice, this will bring respect from others.
9. Give everyone a chance. Don’t prejudge people, and be pleasant to everyone (until they give you a reason not to). Even if you realise someone is a jerk, always be civil and have class. People around you will respect that more than bad mouthing or confronting them in a mean way.
10. Don’t be materialistic. Stay focused on people rather than objects that may be lost or destroyed; people are so much more important and our true value is not what we have, it is the person we are inside that others will respect.
11. Respect yourself and others around you. - Keep your home and surroundings clean and well kept. Your neighbours will respect you and the neighbourhood will be a better place for everyone. Treating others with respect is the most important thing to do; if you treat someone with respect, they’ll treat you with respect.
12. State your boundaries. Clearly communicate what you are willing to accept and what the consequences for trespassing of these boundaries are. Do what you announced to do (or not to do) every time the trespassing happens.
o Example: If you want to go out to meet friends with your partner, inform them of the time and that you will leave at this time; whether they are ready or not. If your partner is not ready to go, leave the house without them. Do not let them call you back or change your plans in any way. Do not try to justify your actions, and refuse to accept blame. If at all, tell them that you informed them of the consequences and they are only suffering consequences that could have easily be avoided if they had played by the rules.
Tips
• Remember that respect is something that people have to earn. It is given to those who live respectably!
• Bring beauty to your surroundings by giving your neighbours a pleasant view of your home and your personality. Invite the people in your neighbourhood to draw near with genuine interest and friendliness. They will want to care about you, too.
• Remember that people notice the example your children are following. If you treat your children lovingly and teach them to have respect for yourself and others, you will be treated with respect also.
• Especially remember to be respectful to bullies. If they take something from you, or start to tease you, say: “Can I have that back? And by the way, I love your hair”. Don’t shower them with compliments, as they will take advantage of that, but say something nice. It will easily throw them off guard.
• Try to find what you’re good at, and use it. If you’re a good singer, be in the school musicals, sing for events, etc. People will recognise you and your talents. This is a great way to get ‘well-known’.
Warnings
• Don’t try too hard, people won’t respect you because they will assume you are trying to be better than them.
• Don’t pretend to be someone you’re not. People might think you’re insecure and fake. Therefore you won’t be respected.
2. Keep your language clean and respectable. Say positive things about others whenever possible, but be sincere - people can recognize the difference between true interest and forced flattery.
3. Try not to be negative. It is easy to point out the downside of a situation, but if we make the effort to overcome our obstacles we can lead happier lives and be an encouragement to others. Find ways to assist those who need help and your own troubles will seem less overwhelming, and you feel better for doing it!
4. Greet people in a proper and friendly manner. It is appreciated and returned by others, and makes you feel wonderful.
5. Never bully others or take advantage of their weaknesses. Bullies are not respected because they don’t show respect. Allow people to keep their dignity.
6. Don’t act like a know it all. People do not appreciate it when you act superior to them.
7. Be a good role model. Set an example that others would like to follow. When another person imitates you, it is a sign of respect. If someone else has set a good example, let them know how much you appreciate it by your own actions.
8. Be yourself. Don’t join in with the latest craze just because others may be following the popular style. Respect yourself by making your own choice, this will bring respect from others.
9. Give everyone a chance. Don’t prejudge people, and be pleasant to everyone (until they give you a reason not to). Even if you realise someone is a jerk, always be civil and have class. People around you will respect that more than bad mouthing or confronting them in a mean way.
10. Don’t be materialistic. Stay focused on people rather than objects that may be lost or destroyed; people are so much more important and our true value is not what we have, it is the person we are inside that others will respect.
11. Respect yourself and others around you. - Keep your home and surroundings clean and well kept. Your neighbours will respect you and the neighbourhood will be a better place for everyone. Treating others with respect is the most important thing to do; if you treat someone with respect, they’ll treat you with respect.
12. State your boundaries. Clearly communicate what you are willing to accept and what the consequences for trespassing of these boundaries are. Do what you announced to do (or not to do) every time the trespassing happens.
o Example: If you want to go out to meet friends with your partner, inform them of the time and that you will leave at this time; whether they are ready or not. If your partner is not ready to go, leave the house without them. Do not let them call you back or change your plans in any way. Do not try to justify your actions, and refuse to accept blame. If at all, tell them that you informed them of the consequences and they are only suffering consequences that could have easily be avoided if they had played by the rules.
Tips
• Remember that respect is something that people have to earn. It is given to those who live respectably!
• Bring beauty to your surroundings by giving your neighbours a pleasant view of your home and your personality. Invite the people in your neighbourhood to draw near with genuine interest and friendliness. They will want to care about you, too.
• Remember that people notice the example your children are following. If you treat your children lovingly and teach them to have respect for yourself and others, you will be treated with respect also.
• Especially remember to be respectful to bullies. If they take something from you, or start to tease you, say: “Can I have that back? And by the way, I love your hair”. Don’t shower them with compliments, as they will take advantage of that, but say something nice. It will easily throw them off guard.
• Try to find what you’re good at, and use it. If you’re a good singer, be in the school musicals, sing for events, etc. People will recognise you and your talents. This is a great way to get ‘well-known’.
Warnings
• Don’t try too hard, people won’t respect you because they will assume you are trying to be better than them.
• Don’t pretend to be someone you’re not. People might think you’re insecure and fake. Therefore you won’t be respected.
Everything happens for a reason
Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there…to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson or help figure out who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these people may be but you lock eyes with them, you know that very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way.
And sometimes things happen to you at the time that may seem horrible, painful and unfair, but in reflection you realize that without overcoming those obstacles you would never realize your potential, strength, will power or heart.
Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of luck. Illness, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test limits of your soul.
Without these small tests, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere; safe and comfortable but dull and utterly pointless.
The people you meet affect your life.
The successes and downfalls that you experience can create whom you are, and the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact they are probably the most poignant and important ones.
If someone hurts you, betrays you or breaks your heart, forgive them because they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart.
If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but also because they are teaching you to love and open your heart and eyes to little things. Make every day count.
Appreciate everything that you possibly can, for you may never experience it again.
Talk to people whom you have never talked to before, and actually listen.
Let yourself fall in love, break free and set your sights high.
Hold your head up because you have every right to.
Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you. Create your own life and then go out and live it.
And sometimes things happen to you at the time that may seem horrible, painful and unfair, but in reflection you realize that without overcoming those obstacles you would never realize your potential, strength, will power or heart.
Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of luck. Illness, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test limits of your soul.
Without these small tests, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere; safe and comfortable but dull and utterly pointless.
The people you meet affect your life.
The successes and downfalls that you experience can create whom you are, and the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact they are probably the most poignant and important ones.
If someone hurts you, betrays you or breaks your heart, forgive them because they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart.
If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but also because they are teaching you to love and open your heart and eyes to little things. Make every day count.
Appreciate everything that you possibly can, for you may never experience it again.
Talk to people whom you have never talked to before, and actually listen.
Let yourself fall in love, break free and set your sights high.
Hold your head up because you have every right to.
Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you. Create your own life and then go out and live it.
HEAVEN ON LINE
There's a land where I go when I need to share
that's not on a map, yet exists everywhere
A land of names without faces,
a curious place, modern creation that's called cyberspace.
There's all creation of people with cute little names
Like Pookie, and Sandman and Rosebud and Flames.
Some are just snobs and some are real fun.
And some of them just want to find someone.
But both good and bad they all play a role.
Still each one unique, but part of the whole.
We talk and laugh and wonder why.
We flirt and we hug and sometimes we cry
We can't be heard and can't be seen.
Yet, there it is, right on our screen.
But all in all the most curious part
Is the power it has to open our heart.
To share with a stranger those things we've concealed
Which to our closest of friends we'd never reveal.
Our deepest regrets and most troubling fears
The scars in our life which bring us to tears.
What gives them the power to reach into me
and show me the truths that I never see.
How do they manage to open my eyes
And make me confess the deceit and the lies.
I don't understand this magical spell,
But I know that without it my life would be hell.
This must have been planned by the Creator up above,
Cause there's no place on earth where you'll find as much love.
When I need direction I know I can find
those angels from heaven just waiting on-line.
that's not on a map, yet exists everywhere
A land of names without faces,
a curious place, modern creation that's called cyberspace.
There's all creation of people with cute little names
Like Pookie, and Sandman and Rosebud and Flames.
Some are just snobs and some are real fun.
And some of them just want to find someone.
But both good and bad they all play a role.
Still each one unique, but part of the whole.
We talk and laugh and wonder why.
We flirt and we hug and sometimes we cry
We can't be heard and can't be seen.
Yet, there it is, right on our screen.
But all in all the most curious part
Is the power it has to open our heart.
To share with a stranger those things we've concealed
Which to our closest of friends we'd never reveal.
Our deepest regrets and most troubling fears
The scars in our life which bring us to tears.
What gives them the power to reach into me
and show me the truths that I never see.
How do they manage to open my eyes
And make me confess the deceit and the lies.
I don't understand this magical spell,
But I know that without it my life would be hell.
This must have been planned by the Creator up above,
Cause there's no place on earth where you'll find as much love.
When I need direction I know I can find
those angels from heaven just waiting on-line.
Unconditional Love
The best love to receive
Is unconditional love
Hold it close to your heart
Because you can never get enough
When you have been loved unconditionally
No matter your faults or mistakes
There's nothing better you could have
This kind of love is absolutely great
It's a love with no end
It's a love that will always last
It just gets better everyday
No matter what hide's in your past
This unconditional love
It's better to give than receive
So I will love you unconditionally
If unconditionally you'll love me
Is unconditional love
Hold it close to your heart
Because you can never get enough
When you have been loved unconditionally
No matter your faults or mistakes
There's nothing better you could have
This kind of love is absolutely great
It's a love with no end
It's a love that will always last
It just gets better everyday
No matter what hide's in your past
This unconditional love
It's better to give than receive
So I will love you unconditionally
If unconditionally you'll love me
A chance to start a new
How often we wish for another chance
To make a fresh beginning.
A change to blot out our mistakes
And change failure into winning.
It does not take a special time
To make a brand-new start,
It only takes the deep desire
To try with all our heart.
To live a little better,
To always be forgiving.
To add a little sunshine,
In a world for which we're living.
Never give up in despair
Nor think you are through,
For there's always a tomorrow,
"A chance to start a new."
To make a fresh beginning.
A change to blot out our mistakes
And change failure into winning.
It does not take a special time
To make a brand-new start,
It only takes the deep desire
To try with all our heart.
To live a little better,
To always be forgiving.
To add a little sunshine,
In a world for which we're living.
Never give up in despair
Nor think you are through,
For there's always a tomorrow,
"A chance to start a new."
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